Finances in Focus

One of the things I hear a lot writing is that the “average reader” is a guy in his late 20s, meaning I often get reminded that I need some columns and suggestions for the beginners reading my words. Guys and gals who are just a year or two out of college, now have good […]

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Advice: Outside The Box

Dear Dr. Fred: My partner of seven years recently broke up with me and moved out, because … get this …he “doesn’t think he’s gay anymore!’’ He was married to a woman when we first met, but he had been having sex with men on the down low for some time. All I can say

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Pecs and the City

I used to think I was interesting. Always quick with a joke, a humorous anecdote or a hilarious story about some bizarre situation that I found myself in. I used to think my unnatural retention of trivia and encyclopedic knowledge of a myriad of subjects was enough to add flavor to any conversation. I realize

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Federal Judge Strikes Down Ban on Veterans Benefits for Same-Sex Couples

Just a few days ago, we reported that same-sex military couples would be banned receiving veterans benefits by Title 38. Well, a federal judge just struck that down. Buzz Feed reports: A federal judge in California on Thursday found that, as with the ban on federal recognition of same-sex couples’ marriages, federal veterans’ benefits laws

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Adam Cervantes memorial fund

Adam Cervantes (in White) along with Anthony at Day of Decision 2013 ADAM’S HUSBAND AND FAMILY ARE UNITING TO RAISE MONEY FOR FUNERAL EXPENSES! Adam was known in the community as a person with a heart of gold! His life was tragically cut short due to a random act of violence while attempting to save

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