Opinion

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Hackin’ The Net

Time for a few questions from the mailbox…and probably the biggest one to arrive from multiple sources lately is actually a repeat of a golden oldie: Do I buy that new (fill it in: computer/iPad/phone/laptop/music player) now or do I wait for the next one to come out? And despite the playing field changing a […]

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The word by Sheila

The times, they are a changin’. In fact, I’m beginning to wonder whether gay, lesbian, bi & trans folks are todays canaries in the coal mine. For those of you unfamiliar with the canaries’ function, the phrase refers to the fact that well into the 20th century; coal miners would bring canaries into the mines

Advice: Pink In The Sheets

Mz. Pink, I’ve never been to a Gynecologist. How important is it for me to go see one? Since I don’t have sex with men is it necessary to go? Pap Fear   Read my answer by clicking read more ——————->  

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Pecs and the City

When I was a scrawny little pup, I dreamed of the day I would be older, bigger and free to come and go as I pleased. The world seemed to be waiting for me to claim it as my own. I would be able to drive wherever I wanted, eat cake for dinner, have a

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Grace Under Fire: A Response to Marriage Equality Opponents

I’ve had to do some soul searching recently regarding marriage equality, not because of where I stand on the issue (I firmly believe that every American should have the right to marry the person they choose) but because of where some of my friends stand. This week I had the awesome privilege of witnessing history:

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Dump Decency…for ‘Murica!

Last March (2012), after Starbucks backed a Washington state ballot initiative legalizing same-sex marriage, the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) organized a “Dump Starbucks” campaign in response during the annual shareholders’ meeting. The goal was to get closet-cases and people who despise the LGBT community to stop buying cups of coffee at Starbucks, which would

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Gay Marriage legal in California by late fall my prediction

By now if you have not heard about the two cases affecting gay marriage which were heard by the SCOTUS then you have no Facebook and have lived under a rock.  Let’s cut to the chase, here are my predictions (f you want to know my reasons then read the rest of the column): Prop

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Dear Brian Browns of the world….

With everything that has been written about the oral arguments in Hollingsworth v. Perry, the Supreme Court case challenging California’s Proposition 8 (spoiler alert: Prop 8 will most likely be a thing of the past), I’d like to take a different approach and address the haters…….of the LGBT community, specifically those who frequently bring religion

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The State of Our Unions: Why Obama didn’t mention Gay Marriage in the SOTU

I was thinking about Obama mentioning gay marriage in the State of the Union. Of course, the thing is, that he didn’t mention it. He skated around the issue noncommittally, instead talking about equality, regardless of “what you look like or who you love.” The SOTU is the ultimate bully pulpit, giving the opportunity to

Reparative therapy: ‘It is shocking that we are still shocking people!

It is shocking that we are still shocking people! Forty years ago, in 1973, the American Psychiatric Association announced that homosexuality was not a mental illness. “Conversion or Reparative therapy” has been rejected by the World Health Organization, the American Psychological Association and almost every other professional therapeutic group in America to date. When a